Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Intimacy~


intimacy in the dictionary is defines as arising from close union, contact, association, as well as acquaintance. in fact, intimacy can have varies dimensions. there are :-

  • physical (hugging, kissing and holding hand...)


  • intellectual (how others think...)


  • emotional (exchanges important feeling..)


  • shared activities (include everything from working or games...)



there are also some differences in male and female intimacy styles. first, differences in expressing emotion. girl is more willing to share their thought, what they are thinking with others as compared to guy. in term of the amount and depth of information exchanged, female-female relationships are the champion on the disclosure list. *proud* XD where the second is male-female. and relationships between men has less disclosure than any other types. conclusion, female is good listener? haha. =p




culture make influences on intimacy. for example, east and western culture. we can't deny that western people is more 'open' than us. kissing and hugging infront of the public is just a very common thing to them. our culture doesn't allowed people to do this. cause holding hand and kissing doesn't allow among muslim.*but nowaday malaysian are quite open dy*



Chong wenhui ^^


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